MISSOURI FAMILY LAW BLOG

How to Fight a High-Conflict Custody Case in Missouri: A Strategist's Guide

A high-conflict custody case is decided by who keeps a clear objective, prepares better, and stays disciplined when the other side is not. The working framework I use in contested Missouri custody and modification cases.

Kirby Minor

Sep 175 min read

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Judo Ne-Waza Part 4: Fundamentals of the Judo Ground Game I Teach My Students by Kirby L. Minor, Divorce & Custody Attorney in Lee's Summit

From the dojo mat to the courtroom, success relies on mastering the ground game. Lee's Summit attorney Kirby L. Minor shares the 15 essential Ne-Waza (ground fighting) fundamentals he teaches his students, translating martial arts discipline into actionable strategies for navigating high-conflict Jackson County custody battles.

Kirby Minor

Jun 66 min read

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Missouri’s 8 Best Interests Factors: Factor #8 – The child's input by Kirby Minor, Divorce & Custody Lawyer in Lee's Summit

Missouri law requires courts to consider the "unobstructed input" of a child regarding custody, but only when free from coercion. In this final factor of the best-interests analysis, Kirby Minor applies the wisdom of Sun Tzu and Lao Tzu to navigate the delicate balance of a child’s authentic voice. Learn why direct testimony is a "last resort" in Jackson County and how to protect your child’s emotional freedom during a custody case.

Kirby Minor

Apr 54 min read

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Missouri’s 8 Best Interests Factors: Factor #7 – “The intention of either parent to relocate the principal residence of the child." by Divorce & Custody Attorney in Lee's Summit, Kirby Minor

actor #7 is one of the most consequential and frequently litigated factors in Jackson County custody and modification cases. Relocation directly impacts parenting time, school stability, community ties, and the child’s ability to maintain frequent, continuing, and meaningful contact with both parents. Missouri has a specific relocation statute (§ 452.377) that requires 60 days’ written notice and court approval if the move will substantially impair the other parent’s custody

Kirby Minor

Apr 44 min read