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Shōgun Lessons: Samurai Strategy Meets Missouri Family Law Litigation -Lee's Summit Divorce Attorney
This Lee's Summit Divorce Attorney's favorite series, FX’s Shōgun (2024), isn’t just a gripping historical epic — it’s a masterclass in strategy, honor, patience, and survival amid chaos, betrayal, and power struggles.

Kirby Minor
Mar 114 min read


Bushido: The Samurai Code and Its Timeless Relevance to Family Law Litigation (a Lees Summit Divorce and Custody Attorney's Perspective)
In the heat of Missouri divorce and custody litigation—particularly high-conflict cases in Jackson County—there is often no room for hesitation, half-measures, or moral compromise. The courtroom becomes a battlefield where the stakes are your children’s stability, your financial future, and your ability to remain a meaningful parent. Bushido, the unwritten code of the samurai that guided Japan’s warrior class for centuries, offers profound lessons for navigating these modern

Kirby Minor
Mar 104 min read


DEFEATING THE NARCISSIST: Sun Tzu Strategy in Divorce and Custody Cases Involving a Narcissist
Clients often describe these dynamics during consultations and throughout cases: the spouse who twists facts, refuses compromise, weaponizes the kids, or escalates every issue to "win" at all costs. Missouri's rebuttable presumption for equal parenting time (§ 452.375, RSMo) can be exploited in such scenarios—unless countered with strong evidence of non-cooperation, unfitness, or patterns that rebut the presumption. If you're facing this, you're not alone, and there's a strat

Kirby Minor
Mar 63 min read


The Mysterious Technique of the Cat and Insight Into High Stakes Conflict in Divorce and Custody Cases
Missouri divorce and custody litigation often turns into a tense standoff—opponents locked in ego-driven conflict, each side pushing harder, escalating motions, accusations, and costs. Under § 452.375, RSMo, courts favor equal parenting time unless rebutted by evidence of unfitness or non-cooperation, yet high-conflict cases devolve into unnecessary battles that harm children most. The goal isn't always to "crush" the other parent; it's to achieve a stable, fair outcome with

Kirby Minor
Mar 33 min read
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