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DEFEATING THE NARCISSIST: Sun Tzu Strategy in Divorce and Custody Cases Involving a Narcissist
Clients often describe these dynamics during consultations and throughout cases: the spouse who twists facts, refuses compromise, weaponizes the kids, or escalates every issue to "win" at all costs. Missouri's rebuttable presumption for equal parenting time (§ 452.375, RSMo) can be exploited in such scenarios—unless countered with strong evidence of non-cooperation, unfitness, or patterns that rebut the presumption. If you're facing this, you're not alone, and there's a strat

Kirby Minor
Mar 63 min read


The Mysterious Technique of the Cat and Insight Into High Stakes Conflict in Divorce and Custody Cases
Missouri divorce and custody litigation often turns into a tense standoff—opponents locked in ego-driven conflict, each side pushing harder, escalating motions, accusations, and costs. Under § 452.375, RSMo, courts favor equal parenting time unless rebutted by evidence of unfitness or non-cooperation, yet high-conflict cases devolve into unnecessary battles that harm children most. The goal isn't always to "crush" the other parent; it's to achieve a stable, fair outcome with

Kirby Minor
Mar 33 min read


Hagakure and the Way of the Warrior in Divorce, Custody and Modification Litigation.
At the Law Office of Kirby L. Minor, we apply Hagakure's mindset to dominate these cases in Lee's Summit and Jackson County: detach from fear, act with pure intent, and pursue victory without hesitation.

Kirby Minor
Mar 13 min read


High-Conflict Custody Battles in Missouri: Strategies for Success
High-conflict custody battles in Missouri are wars of attrition. They are prolonged, emotionally charged, and often irrational. The goal isn't just to "win" time with your children. Instead, it often becomes about imposing your will on the outcome despite chaos, misinformation, and entrenched opposition. Under § 452.410, RSMo, modifications require proving a substantial and continuing change in circumstances, plus that the shift serves the child's best interests. In high-conf

Kirby Minor
Feb 214 min read
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